Thursday, March 26, 2009
WE NEED EACH OTHER
Many living things need each other to survive.
If you are familiar with this tree,
you may have noticed that it does not grow alone.
Aspens are found in clusters, or groves. We're told that the reason
for this is because aspens can multiply from the roots. They send up
lots of new shoots every year. These become saplings that grow quickly
and make new baby aspens of their own. In some groves, all of the
trees may actually be connected by their roots. It is as if they are
Another tree, the giant California redwood, may tower 300 feet into
the sky. We've seen pictures of tunnels carved into massive trunks
wide enough to drive an automobile through. It seems they would
require the deepest of roots to anchor them against strong winds. But
instead their roots are actually shallow -- they spread out wide in
search of surface water. And they reach in all directions,
intertwining with roots of other redwoods. Locked together in this
way, all the trees support each other in wind and storms.
Aspens and redwoods never stand alone. They need one another to
People, too, are connected by a system of roots. We grow up in
families that nurture and guide us. We learn early to make friends who
support us in different ways. We are not meant to survive long without
others. And like the giant redwoods, we do best when we hold onto one
another and help each other to keep standing through life's storms. We
need others to hold us up, encourage us and to stand with us.
When I'm not doing well, it is often because I am going it alone. I
don't always let others in. I forget to ask for help; I keep my
problems to myself. And though I may not see it, others around me
might be doing the same thing.
It helps to remember how much like those trees we really are. It might
be time to let someone else help hold you up for awhile. Or perhaps
someone needs to hang on to you